Friday, September 07, 2007

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When she doesn't call you
[ Its because she's waiting for you tocall her]

When she walks away from you mad
[ Follow her ]

When she push you or hits you
[ Grab her and don't let go ]

When she starts cussing at you
[ Kiss her and tell her you love heror a kiss and A shut up works also]

When shes quiet
[ Ask her whats wrong/Or mess withher. ]

When she ignores you
[ Give her your attention ]

When she pulls away
[ Pull her back ]

When you see her at my worst
[ Tell her shes beautiful ]

When you see her start crying
[ Hold her and tell her everythingwill be alright ]

When you see her walking
[ Sneak up and hug her waist frombehind ]

When she's scared
[ Protect her ]

When she lays her head on your shoulder
[ Tilt her head up and kiss her ]

When she teases you
[ Tease her back and make her laugh ]

When she doesn't answer for a long time
[ reassure her that everything isokay ]

When she looks at you with doubt
[ Back yourself up ]

When she says that she like you
[ she really does more than you couldunderstand ]

When she grab at your hands
[ Hold hers and play with her fingers ]

When she bumps into you
[ bump into her back and make herlaugh ]

When she tells you a secret
[ keep it safe and untold ]

When she look at you in your eyes
[ don't look away until she does ]

When she misses you
[ shes hurting inside ]

When you break her heart,the pain never really goes away

When she say its over
[ she still wants you to be hers ]

-its kinda true, believe it or not?-

ps:宝贝,那感觉要消失了,我快要抓不紧了,该怎么办?

Sunday, September 02, 2007

牛郎织女

有听过牛郎织女的故事吗?我本人不见得很清楚这故事的来龙去脉,隐隐约约只知道,织女为了牛郎,宁愿被贬为凡人。然后又不知道怎么的,织女重回天堂,一年就只有那么一天能和牛郎相遇。是比干从中破坏吗?是喜鹊误了好事?还是织女和牛郎之间早已存在了误会?突然间对这故事很感兴趣,是因为星河频道正播着这部戏?是因为郭羡妮、温兆伦、唐宁、欧锦棠的演技了得?还是觉得这牛郎和织女好可怜?我想,牛郎每天看天上的星星,看得颈都要断掉了;而织女每天低头看凡间,看得自己都变得驼背了。怎么要这样来折磨自己?最近在报章有提到在中国,牛郎织女这民间故事将不会被灌输进教学内,为的就是不让还在小学求学的同志们过早接触爱情。牛郎织女歌颂着自由爱情主义。自由爱情主义是正确的,这完全是门当户对的敌人。试问,两个相爱的人就一定是门当户对吗?要和门当户对的人相守一生才会幸福吗?不对啊!王母娘娘会用俗人的眼光看待牛郎织女,凡人也会用异行来对待织女;但这有影响他们之间的情义吗?没有啊!这就说明了,在一段感情上,外界的压力根本就不是爱情的绊脚石,而真正导致爱情被画上休止符的是自己。你自己是神,可以为自己的生活画上美丽的色彩;你自己是魔,可以让自己的生活处在黑暗中。世上每件事都是相对的,你也可以说是上每件事都是矛盾的。你可以说你爱她,你恨她,这是相对,也是一种矛盾。你可以说你想约他,是因为你想见他,同时见你也说,你不想约他,是因为你不知道他会不会拒绝你,是因为你不知道要和他说什么。这又是另一种矛盾。矛盾来自哪里?自己的心。如果你的心一直都是矛盾的,那你该怎么办?你的心十五十六,又该怎么办?管不了你的心,那就努力管好你的脑。头脑想的,永远都是理性的。当你被感性牵着鼻子走,就会懂得理性的好。

怎么说牛郎织女的故事会说到理性和感性?好啦,回去那民间传谣吧。也许那只是个传谣,但当一个传谣可以在民间立上几千年的足,那就好比一个历史事件,经过时间的催化也不会逝世。当人们愿意去接受一件事时,那件事的存在性质已经不必去检讨了。而需要被顾虑的是事情的影响力。

突然间觉得如果我是织女也不错,虽然一年就只有那么一次机会和牛郎见面,我已满意了。但我是织女吗?不是啊!所以我不满意。

ps:愿九月的宝宝生日快乐